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Advice to talk to my mother?

Well a good 3 months ago my beloved puppy had gone missing the one day i left my house..... i loved her so much i literally was crying for weeks (fyi i am a guy and not a puss just emotional) i put up 300 posters all around my neighborhood and checked the local pounds everyday for a month but their was no luck at all...... My mom who was ok with the dog was always worried she hurt her F****** Yorkie even tho my dog showed very little interest in her at all shed rather play with my dads dog the big golden retriever. so she went missing the one full day i left my house(Was grounded) And it was my mom who was suppose to watch her while i was gone.So while i was gone i was worried about her for some reason and couldn't wait to get home to see her... Well when i got home i came in the house calling her name and whistling for her, their was no response at first so i went out back and did the same thing... still nothing.... so that's when i got worried and called for my mom to ask her where she was. she said she had no idea and started laughing and said she hadn't seen her at all since the night before when she was wrestling with Cody. So i started frantically searching all of our yard and our house for her. My mom drinks quite a bit and odds are she was drinking the day i left (fyi i was gone 12pm-12pm.) and we have been getting landscaping and their is this one worker who had taken an extra liking in my dog he kept wanting to buy her and asking if he could have her, my mom would joke around and say "yea if you lower this landscaping price" or "yea for free shes a pain" some stupid crap like that. and this guy would always say he would do it or really? i would have to say shes just joking or no its my dog. about a few days after this had all happened i was in a deep depression i literally came home and went straight to my room to cry and be sad for my puppy and myself. then my mom would come over and say "Aww i loved her too sad to see her gone" or "it was gonna happen anyway she was rambunctious and an explorer" so a week after her non comforting comments she started joking with my about her. and then randomly my sibling would say to me she was gonna have to go anyway what if she hurt my moms dog. that when i was positive it was her..... which made me more sad that she would do something like that...then i got angry and was gonna do something to her dog but i got over that and realized her dog did nothing it was her. then i got furious thinking about her and how she did it....i didnt know how to approach her about the subject and what to do to make myself not feel so hateful towards her for doing that.... Please any suggestions will help i just need something to help me with this situation.

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1. This without a doubt appears to be a very stressful situation to be in, and a lot of feelings have been hurt. Props to you for taking the time to type this out, and seek help. It sounds like you have a lot of suspicions about what happened, and that you just need to talk to your mom about this. It might help if you can call to talk with us at the Boys Town National Hotline about how you are feeling. We have counselors here 24/7, that would like to be able to help you work through this situation. Please give us a call now, we are here for you! Best, Mandi, Counselor 1-800-448-3000