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do you think we're dumb for doing this?

ok so me and my bf have been together foe about 15 months and we have planned to get married and move in together im 17 and hes 16 we also want to have a kid and we're TTC if i get pregnant this month ill be due around late nov or early dec nov24th is my bday so ill be 18 when i have it my bf wont be 17 till jan 29th ill be getting $20,000 at least this month and 300 a month im in GED classes now and soon be going to cometology school he'll get his GED and go to college also and we'll both get jobs so i estimated about what we would make in 8 months and its about $12,000 do you think we have enough for a trailer? baby? and a wedding? if you have any houses you know for sale in alabama pleasee present links my mom doesnt know about the baby but she knows im wanting to move she wants me to live close to her and my bfs mom wants us to move a trailer on her land its 13 acres and she lives on it also idk what i want cuz everything will be free living on her land but its a little too close to a MIL what do you guys think? im so confused on what to do im trying to plan everything and my bf just gets mad and tells me to just see what happens..... ://

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1. WAIT! WAIT! WAIT! You have a home and food and education, you need to graduate and your boyfriend needs to graduate before you do anything. It would be extremely hard to go to college with a baby or even work with a baby. There will not be enough money to support your family. You cannot live with his parents forever and it will take forever to get the money for a house if you have a kid.... You are making a mistake. 20000 for a wedding and a house will not work.
2. your only 17! you have your whole life ahead of you and having a baby would cost more money and would be hard to take care of. make should go to school and find a good job nefore you have a baby. im sorry if this is not the answer youre looking for, but its just my opinion.
3. in my opinion with these law now days if you really want to do this wait till ur bf is 18 but this is not the place for an opinion about somthing so serious
4. uh..i think u guys should definitely wait till your older.
5. Getting married when you're 17 is illegal without your parent's permission. And it's barely legal for him to be having sex with you. You're seventeen. You have your whole life in front of you and I don't think that you want to spend the rest of your life tied down, even if you do love this boy. If you love him and he loves you, then you will wait until both of you are legally adults.
6. I wouldn't say you are dumb. I think you are naive and inexperienced. You don't do those things until you are financially stable. If you plan to buy a trailer, that alone costs about $15,000. A small wedding will cost a few G. Do you have any idea how much it costs to support a kid? Unless you rely on your parents, there is no way you can survive. $300 is not even enough to pay for daycare. Not to mention food and other things. What about your tuition? What about insurance? Google how much everything costs before doing it. You have a whole life ahead of you. Don't waste it on some dream. You will have a chance to do all that eventually, it just takes time.
7. noo!!! you guys are way too young. $12,000 is not enough for those things!!!