Online House Hunting - Do you think we're dumb for doing this?

Do you think we're dumb for doing this?

ok so me and my bf have been together foe about 15 months and we have planned to get married and move in together im 17 and hes 16 we also want to have a kid and we're TTC if i get pregnant this month ill be due around late nov or early dec nov24th is my bday so ill be 18 when i have it my bf wont be 17 till jan 29th ill be getting $20,000 at least this month and 300 a month im in GED classes now and soon be going to cometology school he'll get his GED and go to college also and we'll both get jobs so i estimated about what we would make in 8 months and its about $12,000 do you think we have enough for a trailer? baby? and a wedding? if you have any houses you know for sale in alabama pleasee present links my mom doesnt know about the baby but she knows im wanting to move she wants me to live close to her and my bfs mom wants us to move a trailer on her land its 13 acres and she lives on it also idk what i want cuz everything will be free living on her land but its a little too close to a MIL what do you guys think? im so confused on what to do im trying to plan everything and my bf just gets mad and tells me to just see what happens..... ://

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good luck!
YOU BOTH NEED TO WAIT UNTIL YOU HAVE FINISHED SCHOOL THEN SEE HOW THINGS ARE GOING.
I believe that if you are asking these questions then you are way too young to get married. It costs a lot of money to raise a child and without a high school diploma you will have a very difficult time just supporting yourself. I know that both parties intend to get a GED however, I would wait until this is done.
yeah, that sounds pretty dumb.
Sounds way beyond dumb - If you love this guy wait 4 years and for God's sake don't even think about having a baby for at least 5 years. If you marry this guy now - you won't even know where he is next year. The fact that you can't figure this out shows that you aren't anywhere near ready. You are a teen and you should be out enjoying your friends and having fun. Adulthood lasts a very long, long time. Enjoy your young years while you can - you can't ever get them back.